Although we’ve featured Putri previously, she has since launched her own website, and a while back she posted a featured portfolio and her own feature article, which you can read after the jump. She is IMHO a truly exceptional model. —the Doc
Hey guys! Well, I launched my own website at putricinta.com and realized I need to write articles to get google
to know I exist! I am just learning to write now and English isn’t my first language. So here is my first article. People are always asking me how my dating life is (not as exciting as
you think!) so I thought I would write about how to date a model… let me know what you think 
Many people dream of dating a model, but most don’t know where to start. Luckily, I’m here to shed some light on the subject. My name is Putri Cinta, and I work as a nude model. You might have seen me featured in Playboy magazine. As a model myself, I have gained some fascinating insight into the modeling world, and how models think. Here are my tips to help you get the girl of your dreams.
1. We are just like you
Never forget that models are just like everyone else! Men and women might be afraid to approach me because of my job, but believe me when I say that we are more similar than you think.
Same as you, we have hobbies, desires, fears, and secrets. The more you focus on the fact that we are models, the less interested we will be in you.
When you want to get to know a model better, remember not to treat them differently. Do your best to create a genuine connection, even if it’s something as simple as talking about their interests and sharing yours. Don’t pretend to be someone you are not, because it will only come back to hurt you. Be honest and candid. The best relationships are built on trust and a genuine connection.
2. Be direct
It can be intimidating to walk up to a gorgeous woman, but remember that all women love attention. I am no exception! As long as you’re being respectful, no woman will say no to a
charming smile and flirtatious words. I love it when a man gives me his undivided attention. It makes me feel special, and it gives me the chance to really get to know him.
That being said, not every woman is the same. Don’t be afraid to turn up the flirtation if she seems to like it, or tone it down if she looks uncomfortable. I personally love it when a man straightforwardly flirts with me, but not every woman is like me.
3. Don’t focus on our looks
As a model, I am always judged on my looks. Every inch of my face and body has been commented on. Unlike other women, who might not hear many compliments or criticisms about their
bodies, we listen to it all, every day. There is more to us than just our bodies or our faces. I want to connect with a man on a personal level. I want him to understand my heart, and
for me to understand his. When approaching a model, focus past their looks to the person within. Notice her quirks, her good personality traits, and compliment her on that instead.
You’ll see her entire face light up right away!
4. Don’t make it too sexual
A bit of sexual tension adds an incredible spark to life. However, no woman wants to feel like the man talking to them is just after sex. Because I am a nude model, a lot of people
think that I will jump into bed with anyone, but that couldn’t be further from the truth.
Deep down, even the most independent, sexual woman wants to be treated with gentleness and care. Although you might find a model very sexually attractive and would love to have sex with her, save those comments for the bedroom, not the first meeting. Now, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t flirt. I love flirting, and a couple sexual innuendos will definitely make me giggle, but I prefer to save the dirty talk for the bedroom. Once you’ve built a stable relationship, you will have plenty of time to show off your sex-god skills.
5. Be comfortable providing
Believe it or not, but most models can’t pay the bills with their jobs. Although modeling can be a fun and rewarding job, it doesn’t pay a lot. I’m not telling you this for pity, but to
be honest about the realities of dating a model. If you are a natural provider, you will thrive in a relationship with a model. She will shower you in affection, and you can provide her
with the everyday luxuries her salary cannot afford, like a fancy dinner date or a new winter coat.
Those are my insights into what it takes to date a model. I hope you found this entertaining and educating! I have yet to find love myself, but I am open and excited about what this world has to offer. So the next time you meet a model, don’t be afraid to approach her. You never know what could happen.
